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Flipping The Switch




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So, you work from home. Good for you! No boss looking over your

shoulder, no wasting time commuting to and from the office,

no-one setting your hours for you or telling you what to do. No

one to care if you're wearing your rattiest clothes or don't

take a shower before 10:00 am. And how about no life and no time

for yourself while we're on the subject of what you don't have

any more? Sound familiar? If so, read on.



Escaping the regimented structure imposed upon you by the

corporate world may have been one of the driving forces that

prompted you to seek a way to work from home in the first place.

One of the often-overlooked advantages of such a structure,

though, is that it *is* a structure. It has limits, it places

you at a certain place at a certain time, and it dictates what

you will spend your time on.



In other words, it establishes boundaries in your life. The

boundary between work and home, work and play, on duty and off

duty, company time and your time. You could leave work at the

end of the day and your time was your own.



Sure, you may have had other obligations but at least your work

was confined within the boundaries of a workplace and a workday.

Working from home, for all its advantages, can sometimes have

the disadvantage of removing the boundaries between work and

home, work and play, work time and your time. For some, the

problem may manifest itself as a tendency to procrastinate when

it comes to work activities or a lack of personal

self-discipline may become unavoidably obvious. For such people,

the formalized structure of a workplace separate from the home

may suit them better than the independence and autonomy of a

home business.



This article, though, is concerned with those at the other end

of the spectrum. Those who have absolutely no difficulty at all

in motivating and disciplining themselves to work from home. So

much so that their home business literally takes over their

entire lives.

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In my time online, I've heard many people say that they sit at

their computers for 18 hours a day working on their businesses.

Oftentimes, they will still be working at 3:00 am and then go to

bed for four hours or so before getting back in the saddle. They

say this as if it is something to be proud of. I don't know

about you, but working from home, when and if I am finally able

to achieve it on a full-time basis, will be first and foremost a

lifestyle choice.



By that I mean I expect my decision to work from home will

result in an enhancement of my lifestyle in that I won't have to

commute the best part of an hour to get to and from work each

day, if I want to start at 5:00 am and finish for the day at

noon I can do that. If I want to work all weekend and take two

days off during the week I can do that too. I can choose the

projects I want to work on, I can retain the rewards of my own

efforts and I am answerable to no-one but myself. Although I

understand that I will work as hard or harder at home than I do

at the office, I certainly have no intention of merely

exchanging one form of prison for another.

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So, it perplexes me that some people seem to think it is a Good

Thing to shackle themselves to a desk for 18 hours straight and

break only to snatch a few hours sleep before starting all over

again. But, if that's how they want to live their lives, that's

entirely their business.



But what of those who want more balance in their lives but find

they simply can't 'flip the switch' on their home business so

that home becomes a retreat again once the workday is over? If

this is you, here are six suggestions to help you turn off your

business and turn on your life.



1. Confine business activities to an exclusively "work" room



If possible, confine your business activities to a certain area

of the house, preferably a room that is exclusively used by you

as your place of work. The advantage of a room as opposed to an

unused corner of the living room is that when work is done for

the day you can literally and symbolically shut the door on it.

Out of sight, out of mind. If you don't cordon off your work

area in this way, you will be reminded of work whenever you

enter the living room. Even though you may not be physically

engaged in work, you will still be mentally engaged and that's

the same thing.



2. Separate communications systems



Have separate communications systems for home and work. That is,

you have one telephone for home and one for work. The same for

fax machines, cell phones and email accounts. When you're

working, you should have your home answering machine on. When

you're home, you should have your work answering machine on.



3. Establish a routine and structure similar to the workplace



As stated earlier, the structure and routine of an external

workplace has the advantage of allowing you to leave work behind

at the end of the day. By establishing a routine and structure

similar to a place of work, you can still benefit from this

advantage. Now obviously you don't have to be as regimented as

you would be if you worked in a corporate office.



You don't have to start at 9:00 am, work till noon, take a one

hour lunch break and then work through until 5:00 pm. You can

set whatever routine and structure you like. The important thing

is to be disciplined in sticking to your routine, whatever you

decide it is. If you prefer to work from 5:00 am through 10:00

am and then from 2:00 pm through 4:00 pm that's fine. This

structure allows you to enjoy the hours from 10:00 am through

2:00 and after 4:00 pm as your own. There is room for

flexibility here. Work however is most productive for you but

stop once you get to the end of your allotted work time. If you

haven't finished what you started, pick it up again in work

time. Don't allow 'your' time to be encroached on by work.



4. Minimize distractions and interruptions



By implementing suggestions 1., 2. and 3., you will also be

establishing an environment where distractions and interruptions

are minimized and discouraged. For example, if you have

school-age children, by scheduling your work time to coincide

with their school time, you will minimize the distractions and

interruptions you will inevitably face if you try and work while

they're at home.



By having separate communications systems, you won't be

interrupted with calls on your home phone while working (your

answering machine should be getting these calls so you can

return them on "your" time).



By having an exclusively "work" area in your home, and making

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sure that other members of your household respect this space for

what it is, you can help others remember that when you're in

your room you're working and are not to be interrupted for

things that can wait until you're "home" again.



5. Rituals



Rituals can play a useful role in flipping the switch at the end

of the workday. For example, you may already have a routine that

sees you working until 6:00 pm, the time your partner returns

home from work. Perhaps you share a glass of wine together at

that time. Why not think of your shared glass of wine as an "end

of workday" ritual. By making a habit of doing this, your mind

will soon learn to associate that glass of wine with the end of

the workday and flip the switch on work in automatic response.



Another idea is to wear a certain item of clothing while working

so that, when you take it off at the end of the work day, your

mind makes the connection between its removal and the end of

work time. A baseball cap, a particular pair of shoes, whatever

it is doesn't matter.



6. Plan to take days off and vacations



Finally, when establishing your routine and work schedule, don't

forget to schedule days off and vacations. And make sure you

take them. You may decide to take Saturdays and Sundays off, or

your "weekends" might be Tuesdays and Wednesdays or Mondays and

Fridays. Whatever works in best with your lifestyle, do it.



The same goes for vacations. Don't underestimate the

rejuvenating effect of taking a week off entirely. Not only is

it good for your overall health and mental wellbeing, you will

probably find that you are that much more productive when it

comes to getting back to work for having taken a true time out.



Hopefully you can see that working from home does not have to

mean turning your home into a place of work. Working from home

as a lifestyle choice should mean that the quality of your life

is enhanced as a result of your decision, not diminished. By

practicing these simple disciplines day-in and day-out you can

be sure that even though you are taking care of business, you

are also taking care of something even more important. Life.







About the author:

Elena Fawkner is editor of A Home-Based Business Online ...

practical business ideas, opportunities and solutions for the

work-from-home entrepreneur. http://www.ahbbo.com



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